Want To Create An Incredible Marriage Without Changing Your Spouse (Or Getting Rid Of Your Step Kids)?

Tell Me How

Want To Create An Incredible Marriage Without Changing Your Spouse (Or Getting Rid Of Your Step Kids)?

Tell Me How
Hi there!

My name is Mindy Neal and I’m a Master Certified Life Coach.

I help women fix what's not working in their blended family so they can stay happily married forever. Best of all, I teach them how to do all this WITHOUT relying on anyone else to change (yes, that means husbands, step-kids, exes, etc).

Don't take my word for it, hear what my clients have to say...

  • "Mindy gives me space to be who I am and that space makes a clearing for something to shift. She is always there for me. She always shows up ready to help and she does it in her own with with her own personality. It makes me want to also be that beacon of light for people to show up with their greatness."

    - Jen T.
  • "I had an incredible session with Mindy Neal today! She helped me see thoughts about my parents in a whole new way. I didn't realize how I was making them the victim in my mind until we talked, and it really helped me see it entirely differently! I left feeling lighter, more clear-headed, and with a sense of ease related to them and their situation that I have had in a while."

    - Lisa P.
  • "I just re-listened to a coaching session with Mindy from a few weeks ago and it blew my mind as much the 2nd time as the first. Mindy knocked it out of the park. If she's not already, she should be considered a national treasure. Her use of analogies is amazing. Her listening and connecting abilities are through the roof. Let's just say that that 20-minute session will be helping me rewire my brain for weeks and months to come. I am so grateful and wanted everyone to know!"

    - Kirsten S.
  • “Hey Mindy, just wanted to let you know I’m in a new relationship. We’re on the same page about so much and it’s refreshing. I hear your voice in my head, everything you’ve taught me about owning my own emotions and not taking on other people’s and it has helped so much! Thank you!”

    -Melissa O.
  • "Hi Mindy! Wanted to thank you for showing up and being such an awesome coach! What a great example and role model you are. You gave me just what I needed to get grounded again."

    - Cindi B.
  • “If anyone is struggling with marriage or other personal matters in life, Mindy Neal is a wonderful life coach and has helped me through a lot of things these last couple of months. I highly recommend her!!! 💗”

    -Candice W.
  • "A giant thank you to Mindy! We had a coaching call on Tuesday and it was seriously life changing for me. I have been thinking about and processing our call non-stop since Tuesday. Thank you Mindy for your insight and wisdom! You helped me in more ways than you will ever know. Life changing!!!

    -Cami R.
  • “I never thought 20 minutes could change my life until I started coaching with Mindy. Every week I have insights that blow my mind. It’s remarkable.”

    -Jessie L.
  • "Time with Mindy is well worth it. No need to suffer through what often times is one or two simple questions away from being tolerable ❤️"

    - Taylor V.
  • "I want to give Mindy Neal a big thank you for the aha moment she blessed me with this morning during a coaching session. Yesterday I was in the pit. I had a lot on my calendar and I woke up sick again. I am done with this! I'm tired of being sick! I can't handle this any longer! I was in a battle with my brain, trying desperately to remind myself how good I have been doing. Mindy reminded me that I was just in an 80/20 negative mindset because I was arguing with reality and all I had to do was bring my mind back to 50/50. Aha moment. She helped me get back to neutral and suggested a shift to 'I'm thinking that I am done with this and that's ok." What a difference neutral can make!"

    - Lori G.
  • “A giant thank you to Mindy. We had a coaching call on Tuesday and it was seriously life changing for me. I have been thinking about and processing our call non stop since Tuesday. Thank you Mindy for your insight and wisdom regarding the 5pm family hour. You helped me in more ways then you will every know. Life Changing!!!”

    -Emily F.
  • "I have been diligently getting coaching every week and it has been mind altering. Last week I thought I did not have anything to work on but jumped on the scheduled call. I smugly told her 'I cannot think of anything to get coached on and I know I'm not supposed to feel any pressure to come prepared when I get coached so what have you got for me?' She replied, 'How about my question of the day?' I thought, 'Nice and easy!' Her question was: "Who in your life would you like to change and what would you like to change about them?' I started laughing because the question was both perfect and painful! I am constantly surprised with how a principled approach to Getting Coached always leads to breakthroughs in how I think. I answered her questions and she followed up with 'What is perfect for you about this person being this way?' Again, laughter! Why? Because I hate that question and do not know how anything I am fighting against could be perfect. Well, I hated it until I didn't. And, I didn't understand it until I did. I am delighted to say that today I love that question. I get that question. I have spent the last 6-7 days seeing what is perfect FOR me, like a gift, because this person is the way that they are. Thanks for all your great work!"

    - Leslie H.


Don’t just accept that you’ll never have the kind of marriage you’ve always wanted. Don’t resign yourself to either settling for less or calling it quits.

There is another option.


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    COVID-19: How Do You Feel?

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