About Mindy Neal
The quality of your relationships drastically impacts the quality of that life.
I’m a Master Certified Life & Relationship Coach, a mom, a loving wife, an Enneagram 8w7, and a daughter of God. I love to hike, travel, play games, binge self-help, and spend time with my family. Everything in my life has led me to this moment.
After 15 years of marriage, I found myself single and wondering what on earth happened to the life I had envisioned for myself. I was diagnosed with Betrayal Trauma and spent a good deal of time in therapy. After rocking the singles world for a while (and oh, what an adventure that was), I got married again and quickly found myself in a whole new world of pain. Blending families was not what I had expected. I was married to someone different but still feeling hurt. Why did this have to be so hard?
I’ve always been good at making the best out of every situation. It’s how I survived so many of the things life has thrown my way. Whenever life gave me lemons, I made lemonade. I figured out how to be HAPPY ANYWAY. That was kind of my mantra and it served me pretty well throughout my life. But it just wasn’t enough this time. I was, for the first time, struggling to be happy anyway. I knew I was capable of living a better life but I couldn’t figure out how to do it. Although I never would have described myself this way, I felt like a victim. A victim of my life. A victim of my circumstances. Definitely a victim of my spouse’s choices. My life wasn’t the life I would’ve chosen, I was just making the best of it. I felt stuck. I couldn’t see the possibilities or believe something else was possible for me.
And then I hired a life coach. It was the best decision I’ve ever made for myself.
Today I’m creating the kind of marriage I’ve always wanted. Not only did I get back to happy anyway, I went way beyond that —even though my blended family looks nothing like I thought it would. I’m still dealing with all the same people who are mostly doing all the same things. I learned the secret to creating amazing relationships. And because of that, I’m experiencing my marriage and my blended family in a totally different way.
I have a degree in Psychology because I wanted to understand the human experience and I wanted to help people ENJOY THE JOURNEY rather than just endure it. When I found this work and saw the changes in myself, I knew it was what I had been searching for all along. I’m so honored and excited to help my clients apply this work to their own lives so they can create the results they’ve been yearning for and live the life of their dreams.
Here’s the deal: I’ve been where you are. I know your pain. I know your struggles.
I get it.
I know what’s standing between you and the marriage you want. You and the blended family you want. You and the life you want.
I won’t just teach you WHAT you need to do. I’ll teach you HOW to do it.
As a master certified life coach, I am highly trained to help you change the old thought patterns that are keeping you stuck. I will teach you the tools to create the marriage you’ve always dreamed of.
It doesn’t have to be this hard.
There is nothing more satisfying to me than seeing a client start to thrive in her marriage. To start enjoying her family again. To enjoy her life no matter what life throws her way.
Many of my clients were afraid they were going to add another failed marriage to their tally. Many of them planned on sticking it out, but weren’t happy and felt stuck.
They didn’t see how they could possibly make it work, let alone create something they actually loved.
But you know what? They did it. They turned it all around.
And so can you!
The only thing that determines how amazing your life is and how much you love and enjoy it—is you.
If it feels like your circumstances or the people in your life are keeping you from fully loving your life, my Love Your Life membership would be perfect for you.
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